Best Feeld Alternatives in 2026 (Honest Picks)
The best apps like Feeld depend on what Feeld is not giving you. OkCupid is the pick for most people: a far bigger pool with a real non-monogamy filter. 3Fun suits couples who want one shared account, Pure suits people who want anonymous, short-lived chats, and SDC suits swinger couples who want events and travel. Poly people who want a poly-only space should try helloPOLY or Plura, and queer women and nonbinary daters HER.
Below: the eight picks side by side with what each costs on the US App Store (checked October 2026), why people leave Feeld, three Feeld facts the top results get wrong, and what to do with your Majestic membership and private photos before you switch.
Feeld alternatives compared
Ratings are out of 5 and come from my reviews, linked in each row; apps without a review on the site yet are marked “not rated”. Prices checked October 2026 on each app’s US App Store listing, linked in the sections below.
| App | Best for | Cheapest paid option | Free version | Couples | Rating |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| OkCupid | A big pool with an ENM filter | Premium items from $7.99 | Match and message | One person per profile | 4 |
| 3Fun | Couples dating together | VIP $29.99 a month | Messaging with matches | Shared couple account | 3 |
| Pure | Anonymous, short-lived chats | Weekly $13.49, monthly $29.99 | Post an ad, browse | Not built for it | 3.5 |
| SDC | Swinger couples, events, travel | $26.99 a month (couples, women), $32.99 (men) | 3-day trial | Couple profiles | 3.5 |
| helloPOLY | A poly-only community | Premium $29.99 a month | Profile, filters, community hub | Individual profiles | 3 |
| Plura | Meeting at real events | Plura+ $24.99 a month | Events and matching | Individual profiles | Not rated |
| HER | Queer women and nonbinary people | Premium from $14.99 a month | Core dating and communities | Individual profiles | 4 |
| 3rder | A smaller Feeld-style couples app | Listed at $14.99 or $24.99 a month | Profile and matching | Couples and singles | Not rated |
For comparison, Feeld’s own Majestic membership costs $29.99 for 30 days on the App Store. Most alternatives charge about the same; only OkCupid, HER and Plura come in cheaper per month.
Why people look for apps like Feeld
Feeld is not losing its crowd: on the App Store it has 4.3 stars from 102K ratings (October 2026), and my Feeld review still rates it 4 out of 5. People who search for something else usually have one of these reasons.
- Bugs and freezes. Recent App Store reviews describe the app as “hit or miss and buggy”, with freezes when liking profiles and login problems. The top Reddit thread for this search asks, in short, for apps like Feeld that are not buggy and full of bots.
- Thin activity and flakes. Reviewers complain about matches who “haven’t been on in over a month” and searches that return people far away. Couples who write about Feeld describe a lot of ghosting compared with purpose-built swinger sites.
- The paywall. Seeing who liked you, incognito, private photos and Pings all sit behind Majestic or a per-Ping price ($2.99 for one).
- Couples want a joint account. Feeld gives each person their own profile and links them. Couples who want one shared login and one subscription look elsewhere.
- Wrong crowd. Some people want only poly people, only swingers, only queer women, or more anonymity than a faces-out app offers.
Pick the Feeld alternative that fits your reason
No single app copies Feeld, so start from what you want more of rather than from the biggest member count.
- If you want more people who are open to ENM: OkCupid, with your profile set to non-monogamous.
- If you are a couple and want one login: 3Fun, or 3rder as a smaller second app.
- If you want less of a footprint: Pure, where photos self-destruct after viewing.
- If you swing and want parties and travel: SDC, or browse the other swinger dating sites.
- If you want a poly-only space: helloPOLY for an app, Plura for events in your city.
- If you are a queer woman or nonbinary: HER.
1. OkCupid: the biggest pool with a real ENM filter
OkCupid is a mainstream app owned by Match Group, but it handles non-monogamy better than any other big app. Its non-monogamy help page says that if you set your profile as non-monogamous, “you will see only other people who are non-monogamous or open to non-monogamy”. It also bans couple and joint profiles (one person per profile), bans dating outside a relationship without your partner’s consent or without disclosing it, and does not allow sexually oriented first messages.
What it costs: the App Store listing says the app is free with an optional premium subscription; Premium items run from $7.99 to $59.99 without plan lengths labeled. It has 4.3 stars from 289K ratings. Premium adds who likes you, unlimited likes and dealbreakers. Visit OkCupid.
Who it suits: solo poly and ENM people, and anyone whose Feeld feed has run dry. The catch: no couple accounts and no Feeld-style desire tags, and the no-sexual-openers rule makes it slower for hookups.
2. 3Fun: best for couples who date together
3Fun is the most direct alternative for couples. Its App Store listing describes one synced couple account, group chats you can invite matches and partners into, free unlimited private messages with matches, private photos only matches can see, hidden distance and verified photos. It has 4.4 stars from about 150K ratings, more than Feeld.
What it costs: VIP is $29.99 for one month and $39.99 for three months, plus Priority Messages at $9.99 or $19.99. Read the terms before paying: the listing says “no cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period”, so turning off auto-renew stops the next charge but does not refund the current one. My 3Fun review rates it 3 out of 5. Visit 3Fun.
Who it suits: couples looking for a third or another couple. The catch: it leans toward threesomes more than long-term polyamory, so solo poly people will find fewer of their own there.
3. Pure: best for anonymous, short-lived chats
Pure is built for people who want to keep a small footprint. Per its App Store listing, you post a personal ad to see the feed, photos “self-destruct right after being seen”, the other person is notified of screenshots, chat media cannot be saved to the phone, and “My Media Rules” lets you blur or block photos and videos. It has 4.3 stars from 87K ratings.
What it costs: chatting needs a paid membership: $13.49 a week or $29.99 a month, with an annual plan offering a trial. Extras such as Compliments start at $2.99. All plans renew unless you cancel at least 24 hours before the period ends. My Pure review rates it 3.5 out of 5.
Who it suits: singles who want something quick and discreet. The catch: the weekly plan is the most expensive way to pay, and the listing’s privacy section still lists contact info, location and identifiers as data linked to you. Anonymous on screen is not anonymous to the company.
4. SDC: best for swinger couples who want events
SDC is a swinger community more than a swipe app. Its App Store listing lists couple profiles, a travel calendar, a directory of local social events, forums, group and video messaging, and a view of who is online nearby. It has 4.6 stars from 13K ratings.
What it costs: prices depend on who you are. A month is $26.99 for couples and women and $32.99 for men; a year is $134.99 and $164.99. There is a 3-day trial with full access, and plans renew unless auto-renew is turned off 24 hours before the period ends. My SDC review rates it 3.5 out of 5.
Who it suits: couples who already swing, or want to, and like meeting at parties and on trips. Couples who write about Feeld say purpose-built swinger sites have fewer flakes. The catch: the listing describes no photo verification, the developer says fake profiles are removed when reported.
5. helloPOLY: best for a poly-only space
helloPOLY is the app once called PolyFinda, run by Polyamorous Pty Ltd. Per its App Store listing, it is free to join, offers 10+ gender identities and relationship styles, lets you show or hide kink, shibari, monogamous or polyamorous profiles, and has a community hub with groups, events and forums.
What it costs: Premium is $29.99 for one month, $39.99 for three or $59.99 for six. It adds unlimited likes, messaging before matching, who likes you, incognito and a profile boost. My helloPOLY review rates it 3 out of 5.
Who it suits: poly people tired of explaining themselves to curious singles. The catch: it is tiny, with 282 App Store ratings against Feeld’s 102K, so outside big cities expect to run out of profiles fast.
6. Plura: best for meeting at real events
Plura (formerly Bloom), run by Together Project, Inc., puts events first. Its App Store listing says you can “choose from 1,000 monthly events” hosted by local communities, from parties and workshops to munches and picnics, see who is going, and match before or after. It targets queer and alternative people and has 4.6 stars from 2K ratings.
What it costs: the core app is free. Plura+ is $24.99 for a month, $47.99 for three or $71.99 for six, and adds who likes you and discounts on ticketed events.
Who it suits: people who would rather meet in a room than chat for weeks, which is the best cure for Feeld flakes. The catch: its value depends entirely on how many events run near you. Check the event list before paying.
7. HER: best for queer women and nonbinary daters
HER is a dating and community app for queer women and nonbinary people. Its App Store listing describes matching nearby and worldwide, 30+ interest-based communities, pronouns and identity options, and incognito mode. It has 4.4 stars from 65K ratings.
What it costs: HER Premium “start[s] at $14.99 USD/month”, per the listing, with Platinum items from $19.99 to $31.99. My HER review rates it 4 out of 5.
Who it suits: queer women who found Feeld full of couples looking for a third. The catch: the pool is thin outside big cities, and it is built for queer women, not for couples looking for a third.
8. 3rder: a smaller Feeld-style app for couples and singles
3rder (by 3rder Limited) matches couples and singles for dates or friendship. Its App Store listing mentions a profile review meant to cut fake accounts, a private photo album you share on request, video chat and map search. It shows 4.8 stars from 20K ratings.
What it costs: the listing is inconsistent: one month appears at both $14.99 and $24.99, three months at $34.99 and $39.99, six months at $49.99. Like 3Fun, it does not allow cancelling the current period. Check the price on the payment screen before you confirm.
Who it suits: couples who want a second app next to 3Fun. The catch: it has a fraction of 3Fun’s ratings and I have not reviewed it yet, so treat it as an add-on.
Other apps worth a look
- Bumble now offers “ethical non-monogamy” as a dating intention badge, and its announcement says you can show two intentions on your profile. Useful for volume, but it is a mainstream crowd.
- FetLife is a kink social network, not a swipe app. If kink is why you were on Feeld, see my FetLife alternatives and the BDSM and kink dating sites page.
- Adult FriendFinder is a large adult network with groups and chat rooms, for people who want explicit intent over a polished app.
- Tinder has the volume, but no couple accounts and no ENM filter. Say you are non-monogamous in your first line or expect awkward conversations.
For a wider view, my polyamory and ENM dating apps guide ranks the poly field, and the dating app alternatives hub covers what to switch to from other apps.
Feeld facts the top results get wrong
The lists ranking for this search are a few years old or written from one couple’s account, and they contradict each other. Here is what Feeld’s own pages say in October 2026.
- Majestic price. One review lists Majestic at $24.99 for 30 days; another says $29.99. The App Store shows $29.99 for 30 days, $49.99 for 90 days and $149.99 for a year. The yearly plan works out to about $12.50 a month, paid up front.
- Can free members message? Some App Store reviews say you have to pay to message. Feeld’s free membership page says free members can browse and connect, send chats, images and short videos to connections, and link partners. What costs money is seeing who already liked you, incognito, private photos, and Pings (from $2.99, with one free a day on Majestic).
- How many partners you can link. A 2021 list says you can link only one partner. Feeld’s Constellations page now allows up to 5, each with their own profile, and each needs their own Majestic membership to use paid features.
If those were your reasons for leaving, Feeld may be worth one more look before you switch.
Before you leave Feeld: cancel Majestic the right way
This is the step that can expose you. Feeld’s cancellation article says:
- Cancel in the store, not in Feeld. Memberships are billed by the App Store or Google Play, and Feeld’s support team cannot cancel them for you.
- Do it at least 48 hours before the next payment. Feeld suggests that margin; you then become a free member when the billing cycle ends.
- Deal with private photos first. When Majestic ends, “your private photos will cease to be private and will be visible to all members”. Delete anything you would not want every member to see.
- Deactivate or delete your profile if you are not out. The cancellation article says your profile becomes visible to all members unless deactivated, while the incognito article says it becomes “hidden”. With Feeld’s own pages disagreeing, deactivating before the paid period ends is the safe move.
The same rule applies to whatever you pick next: 3Fun and 3rder do not allow cancelling mid-period, and every App Store plan here renews automatically unless you turn it off at least 24 hours before the period ends.
Safety on Feeld alternatives: verification and scams
Verification differs a lot between these apps, so check what you are getting:
- Feeld offers optional photo verification: a live selfie matched to a profile photo by its partner Veriff, with no ID asked, per its help center. Its trust and safety page adds screenshot prevention for images in chats, expiring photos, an optional nudity blur and a 24/7 safety team.
- 3Fun advertises verified photos; 3rder says profiles are reviewed; Pure notifies you of screenshots.
- SDC’s listing describes no verification step, so do your own: a short video call before meeting.
Scammers follow the crowd to every one of these apps. The FTC warns about people who move you off the app quickly, always have an excuse not to meet, and then ask for money in a way that is hard to get back. Never send money or gifts to someone you have not met in person, and report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov and in the app. Meet in a public place first and tell a friend where you are going. My online dating safety guide covers red flags and reporting in more detail.
How I ranked these apps
The ranking reflects how well each app covers a reason people leave Feeld, the size of its user base (App Store rating counts, October 2026), its prices and renewal terms, and its safety tools. Ratings come from my existing reviews of each app; Plura and 3rder have no review yet and are unrated. This page is built from public information: the apps’ App Store listings, help centers and terms, not from a hands-on test of each feature.
Frequently asked questions
What are the best non-monogamous dating apps besides Feeld?
OkCupid is the strongest mainstream option because setting your profile to non-monogamous shows you only people open to it. 3Fun suits couples who want one shared account, helloPOLY and Plura suit poly people who want a poly-only space or events, and HER suits queer women and nonbinary daters.
What does GGG mean on Feeld?
GGG stands for “good, giving, and game”. It is one of the 30+ desires Feeld lets you add to a profile, and it signals someone who wants to be a generous, open partner. You can tap and hold any desire in the app to see its definition.
Is there a free app like Feeld?
Feeld itself is free to use: its help center says free members can browse, connect, chat and link partners. Among the alternatives, OkCupid lets you match and message for free, 3Fun says messaging with matches is free, and Plura’s events and matching are free. Pure and SDC need a paid plan to chat, apart from SDC’s 3-day trial.
What are some other dating apps besides Tinder?
For open-minded or non-monogamous dating, look at Feeld, OkCupid, 3Fun and Pure rather than Tinder, which has no couple accounts or ENM filter. For a relationship, Hinge and Bumble are the usual switches, and Bumble now offers an ethical non-monogamy intention badge.
What is the 333 rule in dating apps?
There is no single definition: people use the name for different informal pacing rules, often about how many days, dates or months to wait before a step in a relationship. No app enforces it. If it appears on a profile, ask what the person means by it.
What happens to my Feeld photos if I cancel Majestic?
Feeld’s cancellation article says private photos stop being private and become visible to all members when Majestic ends. Remove sensitive photos and deactivate your profile before the paid period ends if you are not out to everyone, and cancel in your app store at least 48 hours before the next payment.