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    Pure Review

    User Rating 3.5 / 5
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    I love living in NYC because I'm surrounded by diversity, options, and creatives! One of my best friends is an artist, and knows alllll too well about my dating adventures. Next thing I know, she's explaining how Pure works and how it's different from other apps, and then before I know it - I'm on Pure!

    My first impressions when I checked out pure.app was that it felt very millennial or Gen Z – bright, well designed, appealing language, and also offered mobile apps.

    What is Pure app?

    Pure app is a dating platform where people can post personal ads to find others with similar interests. While Pure might market itself as a dating platform, it's really more of a well designed hook-up site that focuses on anonymous casual exchanges. Unlike most apps, there is no algorithm here to keep the theme of spontaneous sex unless you take part in Devil's Bones.

    The Pure dating app originally rolled out in the U.S. in October 2013 as a low-budget project that quickly turned to a viral hit.

    Who is Pure a good dating app for?

    Most of the users are between the ages 25-40, with 67% identifying as male, 30% identifying as female, and 3% non-binary.

    ✅ Those who are looking for a casual relationship.

    ✅ People who live in cities or busy areas.

    ✅ Anyone who wants to live out their desires and fantasies in a discreet, anonymous environment.

    How does Pure dating app work?

    The Pure app works very quickly! After you sign up, you post a "personals ad" with text and photos. You won't be able to see anyone else's ads until yours is live. Once you find a match, you have 24 hours to connect with that person. Once the 24 hours have expired, the chat disappears completely unless you both want to shut off the chat timer.

    You can also play Devil's Bones where Pure decides who to match you with. Aside from that, Pure deletes accounts every 24 hours to preserve anonymity.

    ✍️ The tl;dr on Pure dating

    ✅ Best for casual hookups.

    ✅ Completely anonymous - unless you don't want to be!

    ✅ The layout makes it really fun to use and the ad idea is unique.

    ✅ Being able to search via personals ads, or by being matched with Devil's Bones is a fun way to find a hottie.

    ✅ Women can sign up free, men have to pay.

    ✅ Accounts are not permanent – every 24 hours, a new one has to be created.

    ☠️ What is Pure's Devil's Bones game?

    Devil's Bones is basically their way of matching you, speed dating style! Devil's Bones lets you "roll the dice" using your preferences, and start up an audio chat with someone! If you're having fun, you can also do video chat with them, and if you get along well, progress to chatting outside of the game!

    Is Pure dating free?

    For women - yes, for men - no. Men need to pay to basically use the app, and there are in app features to purchase! There is a 3 day trial available for men.

    Men's pricing: $14.99/week or $29.99/month.

    What sets the Pure dating site apart?

    • Personal ads: Rather than focus on a profile, the Pure dating site emphasizes personal ads with an old-school gritty feel.
    • Devil's Bones: Anonymous audio/video chat matching game.
    • 24-hour expiration: All accounts deleted after 24 hours for safety and anonymity.
    • Self destructing pics: Send pics that disappear once viewed!
    • No screenshots allowed! Great for privacy protection.

    So, final thoughts for my Pure dating app review

    Pure is a really fun app for casual flings or even just a night of sexting. I really liked the audio chat and how anonymous everything is. I did have some successful matches via Devil's Bones and personal ads but nothing has stuck so far. Having to recreate my profile every 24 hours wasn't quite my speed.

    While dating on Pure is nothing like its name, it is a lot of fun! If you're looking for someone to hook up with locally and enjoy chatting outside of just text, Pure is for you!

    Pros & Cons
    Free for women — men get 3-day trial
    Modern design with really cool graphics
    High level of data security and anonymity
    Self-destructing pics feature
    Devil's Bones audio/video match game
    No screenshots allowed for privacy
    Available on iOS, Android, and Huawei
    Messages disappear after 24 hours
    Profile deleted after 24 hours — must recreate
    Fast paced — not enough time for research
    In-app features are pricey
    Men have to pay to post or respond to ads

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