Best Apps for Bisexual Dating in 2026: Ranked
The best app for bisexual dating depends on who you want to meet. BiCupid is the biggest dating site built only for bisexual singles and couples of every gender. HER is the pick for bi women and non-binary people who want a queer, women-centered crowd. Bindr is the best free, label-free option, OkCupid is the strongest mainstream app for bi men, and Feeld suits couples, poly people and anyone exploring.
Below: the ranked picks with what each one costs (from the official App Store listings and pricing pages, checked October 2026), a pick-by-profile guide, the settings that keep straight people and unicorn hunters out of your feed, and where bi people meet when the apps get tiring.
The best bisexual dating apps at a glance
Ratings are out of 5 and come from my review of each app, linked in the table. Bi-The-Way is too new to rate.
| # | App | Best for | Free to message? | Cheapest monthly plan | My rating |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | BiCupid | A bi-only site for every gender and couples | No, messaging is paid | $33.99 | 4 |
| 2 | HER | Bi women, non-binary and trans people | Yes, with matches | $14.99 | 4 |
| 3 | Bindr | Free, label-free dating | Yes, with matches | $8.95 (Gold) | 3 |
| 4 | OkCupid | Bi men and a big mainstream pool | Yes, with matches | Not labeled by length in the store | 4 |
| 5 | Feeld | Couples, poly and open relationships | Yes, with connections | $29.99 (30 days) | 4 |
| 6 | Taimi | An all-LGBTQ+ app with a large user base | Yes, basic chat | Not labeled by length in the store | 4 |
| 7 | Bi-The-Way | A tiny bi+ community with a generous free plan | Partly (community requests capped) | $7.99 in the app, $9.99 on its site | Not rated |
Prices checked October 2026 on each app’s US App Store listing (linked in its section below) and on Bindr’s pricing page. US dollars, before tax.
How I ranked these apps
This list is built from public information, not from new hands-on testing: each app’s App Store and Google Play listing, its pricing page and help center, its safety rules, and its store ratings in October 2026. Each pick is scored on value for money, safety and verification, evidence of an active user base, features for bi people specifically, and how clearly it explains pricing and cancellation. The ratings in the table are the ones from my full reviews, so they never contradict them. A bisexual-only label earned no bonus on its own: an app has to give bi people a real pool to date from.
1. BiCupid: best dedicated app for bisexual dating
BiCupid is the one big platform built only for bisexual and bi-curious singles and couples, and it is open to every gender, which HER is not. Its homepage says it has run since 2003 under SuccessfulMatch, the network behind other niche sites, and it also states plainly that “BiCupid does not conduct background checks” on members. On the App Store the iPhone app has 4.0 stars from 2.1K ratings.
In my BiCupid review I found the free tier works more like a preview: you can join, search and send winks, but a free member cannot send a personal message unless a paid member writes first. Reverse Matching, which shows people who searched for someone like you, is the standout feature, and the 19 gender options are more inclusive than most apps.
What it costs on the US App Store: $24.99 for a week, $33.99 for a month, $69.99 for 3 months, $109.99 for 6 months and $139.99 for a year. The listing says the plans renew automatically unless you turn renewal off at least 24 hours before the period ends.
Who it suits: bi men and women who want everyone on the app to be bi or bi-curious, plus couples looking for a partner. The catch: you have to pay to talk, the review found a male-heavy crowd and couples pushing hard for a third, and the design feels old.
2. HER: best app for bi women and non-binary people
HER is a dating and community app for queer women, trans and non-binary people. Its bisexual dating page says it was founded by a bi woman, that over 30% of its users are bisexual, and that its in-app Bisexual community has 60,000+ members. It is also upfront that it covers “the sapphic parts” of your identity only: you will not meet many cis men here. The help center lists queer women, trans women, trans men, non-binary and gender non-conforming people as its audience.
The App Store listing claims 14 million+ members, rates the app 4.4 stars from 65K ratings, says all core features are free, and states that Premium “start[s] at $14.99 USD/month” (the in-app items run up to $31.99). On Google Play it has 4.3 stars from 74,652 reviews. My HER review found that you can match and chat with people who liked you for free, but searching with filters and discovering new people need Premium.
One contradiction to know: HER’s bisexual page says you can filter for the bisexual Pride Pin for free, while its Premium features page lists Sexual Identity and Pride Pin filters under paid Advanced Filters. Check in the app before you upgrade for that alone.
Who it suits: bi women, non-binary and trans people who are tired of being treated as a threesome prospect. The catch: no cis men, so it only covers part of a bi person’s dating life, and the free version shows ads.
3. Bindr: best free bisexual dating app
Bindr was built by two bisexual founders and never asks for your orientation: you only set who you want to see (women, men, non-binary or trans people, couples). Matching and messaging your matches are free, and couples can link their accounts. My Bindr review covers the details, including the scam reports and the thin user base outside big US cities.
Prices from Bindr’s pricing page, which match its App Store listing: Gold $8.95 a month or $2.95 a week, Platinum $17.95 a month or $7.95 a week, and a one-time Platinum Lifetime plan at $79.99 in the app. Platinum is the tier that lets you message someone before you match. The app has 4.2 stars from 1.2K ratings on the App Store and 3.8 from 815 reviews on Google Play.
Who it suits: bi, pan and fluid people who hate picking a box, and anyone who wants to start at $0. The catch: a small pool, and the weekly plans cost far more per month than the monthly ones.
4. OkCupid: best mainstream app for bi men
Bi men have the fewest bi-only options: HER excludes them, and BiCupid charges to message. OkCupid fills the gap with a huge pool and two settings made for this exact problem. Its help center lists 22 genders and 12 orientations, so “bisexual” sits on your profile instead of hidden in a bio. And if your profile is set as bisexual, its LGBTQ+ privacy controls let you hide from straight people: you only see, and are only seen by, non-straight men and women.
Matching and messaging your matches are free. On the App Store (4.3 stars, 289K ratings), OkCupid Premium items range from $7.99 to $59.99 depending on plan length, and Premium adds seeing who likes you, unlimited likes and Dealbreakers. My OkCupid review rates it 4 out of 5 for question-based matching.
Who it suits: bi men, and bi women who also want to meet men. The catch: it is a general app, so you are filtering a big crowd rather than joining a bi community, and its Google Play rating is a weaker 3.4.
5. Feeld: best for bi couples, poly people and exploring
Feeld is built for open relationships, polyamory and couples, with 20+ sexualities and 20+ gender identities to choose from, per its App Store listing (4.3 stars, 102K ratings). Its help center says free members can connect, chat and link their profile with their partners, and you can link up to 5 partners, each keeping their own profile.
Majestic, the only paid plan, costs $29.99 for 30 days, $49.99 for 90 days or $149.99 for a year on the App Store. Per the Majestic page, it adds unlimited likes, seeing who likes you, Incognito and private photos only your connections can see. In my Feeld review, I liked how easy it is to merge profiles with a partner.
Who it suits: bi people in open or poly relationships, couples, and anyone still figuring out what they want. The catch: it leans toward sex and kink, Majestic is expensive, and Google Play reviewers give it only 3.1 stars from 56,951 reviews.
6. Taimi: best all-LGBTQ+ app with a big pool
Taimi is a dating and social app for every letter of LGBTQ+, so bi people of any gender can meet men, women and non-binary people in one place. Its App Store listing claims 37M+ members, says “every profile is verified”, and has 4.4 stars from 215K ratings. Premium adds filters, profile visitors, unlimited likes and a custom location, across Bronze, Silver and Gold tiers sold from $0.99 to $34.99 per item; the listing does not say which price matches which plan length.
It also offers an AI dating assistant that can like profiles and send first messages for you. That saves time, but read every chat before you meet: you may not know who, or what, wrote the opener. My Taimi review rates it 4 out of 5.
Who it suits: bi people who want one queer app that covers every gender. The catch: the store does not say what each plan costs per month, and the AI assistant means some openers may not be written by a person.
7. Bi-The-Way: the newest bi-only community
Bi-The-Way, a small app registered in Australia and built for the bi+ community, mixes swiping with a forum and a “Get to Know” feature where two people answer questions together before deciding to match. Its App Store listing describes a generous free plan: see who likes you, Get to Know, community posts and comments. Premium adds unlimited community message requests and dating filters.
Two warnings. The app has only 5 ratings (2.4 stars) on the App Store, so the pool is tiny. And the price does not match: its website says Premium is $9.99 a month, while the App Store lists items at $7.99 and $79.99. Check the price on the confirmation screen before you pay.
Who it suits: bi people who want community and friendships as much as dates. The catch: very few members so far.
Which app for bisexual dating fits you?
The fastest way to choose is to start from who you want to meet, because the apps split sharply on gender. Here is the short version, then the longer one.
| If you are... | Start with | Add later |
|---|---|---|
| A bi woman who mostly wants women and non-binary people | HER | Bindr |
| A bi woman who wants to meet men too | OkCupid or Bindr | HER for the queer side |
| A bi man | OkCupid (hide from straight people on) | BiCupid, Taimi |
| Non-binary or trans and bi | HER or Taimi | Bindr |
| Part of a couple, or poly | Feeld | Bindr (linked accounts) |
| On a $0 budget | Bindr | OkCupid, HER free tiers |
| Not out yet | OkCupid with Incognito, or Feeld private photos | See the privacy section below |
What it costs, and the cheapest way in
None of the apps on page one of this search compares prices, so here they are side by side. Every price below is from the US App Store listing or official pricing page linked above, checked October 2026.
| App | What is free | Paid plans (US) | Cheapest way in |
|---|---|---|---|
| BiCupid | Profile, search, winks | $24.99/week, $33.99/month, $69.99/3 months, $109.99/6 months, $139.99/year | Browse free first; 3 months works out to about $23 a month |
| HER | Matching, chat with matches, communities | Premium from $14.99/month | Stay free; pay only for filters |
| Bindr | Swiping, chat with matches, feed | Gold $8.95/month, Platinum $17.95/month, weekly $2.95 and $7.95, Lifetime $79.99 | Free; Gold monthly if you run out of likes |
| OkCupid | Matching, chat with matches, hiding from straight people | Premium $7.99 to $59.99 per item | Free |
| Feeld | Connecting, chat, partner linking | Majestic $29.99/30 days, $49.99/90 days, $149.99/year | Free; 90 days is about $16.66 a month |
| Taimi | Profile, matching, basic chat | Bronze, Silver, Gold from $0.99 to $34.99 per item | Free |
| Bi-The-Way | Who likes you, Get to Know, community | $7.99 or $79.99 in the app; $9.99/month on its site | Free |
Prices checked October 2026. Three rules save the most money:
- Skip weekly plans. Bindr’s Platinum weekly at $7.95 costs $31.80 over four weeks, almost double the $17.95 monthly plan, and BiCupid’s $24.99 week costs most of a month.
- Every plan renews automatically. BiCupid’s listing says you must turn renewal off at least 24 hours before the period ends, and it allows no cancellation of the current period.
- Cancel in the store, not by deleting the app. HER’s cancellation page says deleting the app or closing your account does not cancel Premium. The same goes for every app bought through Apple or Google: cancel under Subscriptions in your Apple ID settings or Google Play.
If “free” matters most to you, my list of completely free dating apps explains which free tiers actually let you talk.
Keep straight people, unicorn hunters and prying eyes out
The biggest complaint from bi daters is not the price. It is getting messages from straight couples looking for a “unicorn” (a bi woman to join them), people who think bi means up for anything, or being seen by someone you are not out to. Here is what each app actually offers against that, from its own pages.
- Hide from straight people (OkCupid, free). The setting in OkCupid’s Privacy menu only shows you to non-straight people, whatever your “looking for” settings say.
- Incognito (OkCupid, Feeld, HER, paid). Your profile stays hidden until you like someone first. OkCupid’s help center adds that if paying for Incognito is a hardship and you need anonymity, you can contact support.
- Private photos (Feeld, paid). Gallery photos only your connections can see, so your face is not in Discover.
- Anti-unicorn rules (HER). HER says its safety team removes unicorn hunters and suspends users who post biphobic statements, and asks you to report couples who approach you inappropriately.
- Filtering out couples (Bindr). Bindr’s FAQ says couples can link their accounts and that other members can filter couples out, and you can hide who you are looking for.
Check the App Store privacy label too, under “App Privacy” on each listing. Bindr’s says location, contact info, usage data and “Sensitive Info” may be used to track you across other companies’ apps and websites. HER’s lists purchases, location, contact info, identifiers and usage data; Taimi’s and OkCupid’s list identifiers and usage data. For a bi person who is not out, that matters as much as the profile settings. If you are on a polyamory or ENM app with a partner, agree together on what each of you shows.
Other apps bi people use
- Tinder and Hinge. The r/bisexual thread that ranks for this search opens with “Try OkCupid or Tinder”: the big general apps simply have more people, bi people included. Both let you show your orientation; see my Tinder review and Hinge review.
- Grindr. For bi men looking for men, Grindr is still a major app (4.5 stars from 389K ratings on the App Store), but it is hookup-heavy and men-only. If you are asking what replaces it, OkCupid and Taimi let bi men meet every gender.
- 3Fun. An app for couples and singles looking for open dating: 4.4 stars from 150K ratings on the App Store, VIP at $29.99 a month. My 3Fun review gives it 3 out of 5.
- BFish (BiFish). It ranks on page one for this search, but its Google Play listing calls it a hookup app, it comes from a little-known developer (Sweet Dating Network), it has 50K+ downloads, and it was last updated September 16, 2025, more than a year ago. I would not pay for it ($11.99 to $39.99) before the bigger options above.
For the wider picture, including lesbian, gay and trans apps, see my LGBTQ+ dating sites category.
Staying safe on bisexual dating apps
Scam profiles turn up on small bi apps as well as big ones: my Bindr review quotes an App Store reviewer whose match asked for gift cards. The FTC’s romance scam guide lists the patterns to know:
- they push quickly to move the chat to text, email or another app;
- they always have a reason they cannot meet: living abroad, the military, an oil rig;
- after a few weeks of daily chat, a sudden emergency needs money;
- they ask for payment by gift card, wire transfer, payment app or crypto, or pitch a crypto “investment”.
Never send money or gift cards to someone you have not met. Before meeting, use the app’s verification badge where it has one (Bindr’s selfie verification, HER’s verified-profile filter), meet in a public place and tell a friend where you will be. Report a fake profile in the app, and report money scams to the FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. Note that BiCupid says outright it runs no background checks, which is true of almost every dating app.
Where bisexuals meet off the apps
Dating apps are only one door, and none of the top results answers this. The Bisexual Resource Center keeps a list of bi+ social and support groups across the US and abroad, and it will help you start one if your area has none. CenterLink runs a directory of LGBTQ community centers, many of which host bi+ nights, book clubs and Pride events. Inside the apps, HER’s Bisexual community and Bi-The-Way’s forums are built for friendship as much as dating, which takes the pressure off.
Frequently asked questions
What dating apps do bisexuals use?
Bi people use both bi-specific apps and big general ones. BiCupid, Bindr and Bi-The-Way are built for bi people, HER covers bi women and non-binary people, and OkCupid, Tinder, Hinge, Feeld and Taimi all let you show you are bisexual. The best choice depends on which genders you want to meet.
What are the best free dating apps for bisexuals?
Bindr is the best free option: matching and messaging your matches cost nothing and it never asks for your orientation. OkCupid, HER and Feeld also let you chat with matches for free. BiCupid is free to join, but messaging needs a paid plan.
Is there a dating app just for bisexuals?
Yes. BiCupid, running since 2003, is the largest site built only for bisexual and bi-curious singles and couples. Bindr and Bi-The-Way are newer bi-focused apps, with smaller user bases.
Where do bisexuals meet?
Online, on bi-focused apps and on inclusive apps like OkCupid, HER and Feeld. Offline, the Bisexual Resource Center lists bi+ social and support groups, and CenterLink's directory points to LGBTQ community centers that often host bi+ events.
What is replacing Grindr?
For bi men who want to meet more than men, OkCupid and Taimi cover every gender, and BiCupid is bi-only. Grindr remains a major app for men seeking men, with 4.5 stars from about 389K ratings on the US App Store in October 2026.
What is the 333 rule in dating apps?
It is an informal rule of thumb, not an app feature, and people use different versions, often about pacing: for example, a few days of messaging, then a few dates before deciding where things are going. No dating app publishes or enforces it, so treat it as a personal guideline.