So my first little adventure into kink dating site reviews had me nervous but I'm an open minded girl! Following a very interesting brunch conversation with the gals, I decided to check out Fetish.com and see how it went.
As it turns out, it's exactly what I'd hoped! Honestly it instantly took away any nervous feelings I had for being new to the kinky scene.
What is Fetish.com and who is it for?
What I learned is that this is more than just a dating site. It's also about creating a cool online space for the BDSM, kink, and fetish community — including tons of learning resources for people like me who are just starting to check things out!
When I was checking out the Fetish.com app and website, I never felt like I was in over my head which was refreshing.
Is Fetish.com legit to use?
Fetish.com felt updated, welcoming, and had really cute branding. The sign up process is simple but that also meant almost no verification barriers. Even though my experience felt pretty legit, be extra cautious!
The tl;dr on Fetish.com
- Brings BDSM/kink into mainstream dating — inclusive and welcoming
- The app and site feel legit — stay smart and be cautious
- 18+ images locked behind age verification via paid subscription
- Has a "Hot or Not" style game
- Also an educational resource and community board, not just dating
What is fetish chat? Mix and mingle in general or private chat rooms. Moderated for safety!
What kinks is it best for? Types of sex, toys, submission/domination, spanking, blindfolds, nipple play.
Can newbies join? Absolutely — I'm living proof!
Is it free? Yes! Tons of free features. Premium and VIP subscriptions available.
Is there a Fetish.com app?
Yes! It's called FET and available on both iOS and Android.
How's the Fetish.com sign up process?
Soooo easy! Email, password, gender on the homepage. Then name, DOB, location, what you're looking for. Confirm email. Decline or accept a special offer. Done! One of the easiest sign ups I've ever done.
What kinks and fetishes is Fetish.com best for?
Mainly aimed at dom/sub roles, impact play, and different types of sex. Also has options like rope bunny, brat/brat tamer, caregiver, degrader, sadist, voyeur, and even vanilla.
Fetish.com educational resources
One of my fave parts! Newbie's guide to BDSM, kink, and fetish. A Safe For Work Kink Academy with threads like "Tips to Vet a Dom." No judgments, everyone accepted!
Search options
Member search filters: age, distance, body shape, personal traits, gender, relationship status, kinks/fetishes. Also has a BDSM Personality Test for matching!
"Quick Kink" lets the algo find matches — 50 free "Spanks" for free accounts.
Free vs. premium features
Free: Profile setup, search by fetish, unlimited messages, community forums, Fetish chat, educational resources, live streaming.
Premium: $9.90/month (1 month) to $4.49/month (6 months). 18+ content, 15 videos, top of online list, open chat rooms, message statuses, 100 profile visitor unmasks/month.
VIP: $16.90/month (1 month) to $7.49/month (6 months). Everything in Premium plus featured in search, highlighted in inboxes, unlimited videos, 300 unmasks, 500 friends.
What sets Fetish.com apart?
- Super cute branding that makes it feel fun and welcoming
- Extensive educational resources plus events and venue listings
- Lots of free features
- Live stream / video chat
- Active Fetish chat feature
- Hot or Not style game
- BDSM School with classes!
Pros and cons
What I liked
- Cute superhero branding about "kinky superpowers"
- Tons of educational resources and BDSM School
- Profile and email verification options
- Active Fetish chat
- Hot or Not game
- Competitive pricing
What I didn't like
- Profile verification not widespread enough
- BDSM dating posts exclusively for people seeking women
- Missing common kinks like foot fetish
- BDSM School classes cost extra
Final thoughts
Fetish.com made me feel really comfortable right from the homepage. It's more than just a dating site — it's got educational resources and community boards that make it feel like a really sexy club where everyone is welcome. I'm gonna go take the BDSM Personality Test and see who matches my results! 😈
