Since I’ve been on a tear lately with dating older men and women, I decided to keep on hunting for new dating sites to try out! I definitely tapped the well of recommendations from my friends too much because they didn’t have anything for me this time around, lol.
So… I googled some more cougar dating sites to check out. Up popped Cougared – another dating site focused on age gap dating. It said it was 100% free to use and had 1000s of profiles on it… it intrigued me enough to check it out and write this Cougared review! There’s almost nothing better than free.
Cougared is for unconventional daters who like to be open minded and date outside the box. Those who like dating outside of the typical age range have a chance to find who they're looking for, in a comfortable atmosphere. I tried digging up some more info on Cougared, but this is one shy dating site because there's not much on it.
Cougared is for you if you are,
✔️Into unconventional dating and age gap relationships.
✔️Open-minded and looking for casual relationships.
✔️Looking to date without breaking the bank. It’s 100% free!
Cougared may not be for you if you are,
✖️Looking for a long-term relationship.
✖️Uncomfortable with dating older women.
✖️Looking for a large user base. This one is fairly small.
So how does Cougared work? It seemed pretty simple. Once I finished signing up on Cougared, there was a waiting period before I could fully access the site. This is because each profile on Cougared gets manually approved which is great! The only weird thing is they tried to immediately send me to Match.com and Mature Adult Friend Finder while waiting. 🤔I already tried and reviewed those so I was just stuck waiting anyway!
After I was approved, I was free to browse around and check out profiles. To find some cougars, head to "search" at the top of the site. Once you find someone you’re interested in, you can send a message, wink, or like their profile!
📲No app.
Unfortunately there’s no Cougared app available! You’ll have to stick to the desktop version or use the mobile web version.
My first impression of Cougared was that it was a good balance of mature and modern, which fit the niche stereotype. Here's what else I noticed about Cougared.com:
Here's some questions I had about Cougared that may help you understand what happens once you sign up:
How to cancel Cougared account: to cancel your Cougared.com account, sign in to your profile and go to settings. On the left hand side, click on "cancel my account" and then tick the check box and tap on "cancel account". Simple! They don’t hold you hostage here. 🤣
How to stop receiving Cougared email alerts: if you don't want an email alert every time someone sends you a wink, message, request, etc., then you can disable those. Once logged in, go to settings, click on "my alerts" on the left, and change your email prefs from there.
Is there anything that shouldn't go on the Cougared profile? Profiles get manually screened, so anything with an inappropriate (NSFW) pic will have a greater chance of not getting approved. Also, adding any private info to your profile can get you banned from the site, such as your phone number, email address, home address, etc.
Is there a Cougared mobile app avail? Nooooo! The closest thing to a Cougared app is the mobile-friendly version of Cougared.com.
Is Cougared.com only for younger men seeking older women? No! Even though the homepage says it’s for younger women seeking older women, you can search however you like once you sign up.
🐇Extremely fast. Less than 1 minute.
Joining Cougared.com was faster than restarting my laptop! It took me 2 steps to sign up. After that, I had to wait to get my profile approved, which took a while for some reason.
Here's how to sign up for Cougared:
1. Signing up for Cougared was easy and streamlined since I could do everything on one page! I love this type of one stop shopping. Here I could enter my username, email, password, gender, age, country, state/region, nearest town/city, what I’m looking for, a description about myself, and profile photo.
2. Once I fill that out, I'm done with registering and just need to confirm my email! This (and the next screen) is where they mentioned trying out the other dating sites.
3. I'm done in 2 easy steps and just need to wait for my profile to be manually approved, which can take a few hours or longer. Basically, signing up was faster than the approval process took, lol.
I wanted to show a pic of the main feed, but since I was still waiting for approval, I could only show a pic of what it looks like after I did a search. There is a lot of info to glean off the feed, including age, gender, location, and whether or not they're online. You can also change between gallery view, basic view, and detailed view.
Additionally, there’s a sidebar with the usual suspects like,
As far as overall usability, Cougared.com definitely leaves a lot to be desired when it comes to aesthetics and design… you know how important that is to me! Even so, while the layout is very outdated, it’s still generally easy to navigate and use.
🔎Free search with multiple options
One of the best things about Cougared is its search feature! There are plenty of things to search by, which I was thankful for. I was also able to categorize my search results by: detailed view, gallery view, and basic view.
Here are the Cougared search filters I could use for free:
✔️Yes! Cougared is free to use.
Cougared is definitely free to use - yayyy!!! In a world where things are so expensive, it's nice to see that there are some things in life that I don't have to pay for. Dating should be one of them, but I guess I will if I have to! Lol.
It generally doesn't cost anything to look for a soulmate IRL, so why should you have to pay online? Cougared understands this, so their users get to date for absolutely free!
There are ads all over the site though, which is the trade-off for not paying any kind of fee to use their dating app.
Well bbs, you get to check EVERYTHING out for free!! No, this isn't some crazy joke, I'm for real! Here's what you get to do for free:
Essentially, doing everything is free – there aren’t any upsells for credits or one-time purchases.
Cougared also has forums to participate in for free if that’s your thing! I’m more of a lurker, so I didn’t actively participate. They’re here if you enjoy it though.
💰No paid membership.
This is normally where I spill the tea on Cougared's premium tier, except there is none!!! Revel in the freeness of it all while dating some hotties and saving some serious dough. It's a win-win for me!
Features are an important factor for me when it comes to dating sites, because it's what makes them stick out from the other dating sites and apps. Here's what caught my eye with Cougared:
I like to weigh my options when it comes to dating IRL, and virtual dating is no different! To be fair with my Cougared review, I wanted to lay everything on the table, including the good and bad.
I won't beat around the bush when it comes to Cougared…so here's what turned me on:
Here's what some of my turn offs were with Cougared:
This is a tough one for me, because while it may have been legit back in the day, it doesn't seem as legit now. Sure, at the bottom of the homepage it says Copyright 2023, but nothing else about the site shows that it has been updated.
At the top of the homepage, there are 2 "ad" links for Match.com - one to find singles 40+, and one to find singles 50+, but when I clicked on either link, they both took me to a defunct page. I couldn't understand why the site directed its users to other sites, and with BROKEN links! Also, the site itself says they have thousands of members, which is less than most dating sites that have millions of members, so why the long wait? It's more of a deterrent and can turn other users off, especially in today's fast paced environment.
Tbh, I understand why Cougared is completely free - they need the new members desperately. The verification process takes wayyyy too long especially in a world where everything is instantaneous. Since it's free, there's nothing to lose by signing up - if you can get your profile approved. As far as finding high quality hotties here, the pool is definitely small, so if you’re already in a smaller city… good luck finding someone.
With that said, I did try out a few other cougar dating sites that were excellent! If you’re curious, here are some you should consider trying too:
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