One particular fantasy that's been lurking in my mind is a good swing. After a lot of thinking, I decided to go the YOLO route! I downloaded SwapFinder, which is a popular swing site with millions of active users.
What is SwapFinder?
✔️Launched in 1996. ✔️Dating app for singles or couples into swinging. ✔️40 million+ members. ✔️Average member age 25-50.
SwapFinder claims to be the 'world's hottest swinger site'. It's NOT for finding love — it's for adventurous couples or singles looking to spice things up! With over 40 million members, it's your ultimate wing(wo)man for finding swingers online.
How does SwapFinder work?
Create an account, spice up your profile, and interact with users. Match through basic search, kink search, advanced search (paid), or the "Hot or Not" game. Once you find someone, send flirts, hotlist them, message them, or tip them. Also supports video chatting, chat rooms, and live cams!
The TL;DR on Swap Finder
- Highly inclusive — LGBTQ+ community welcome.
- Outdated layout but easy once you get the hang of it.
- Mostly NSFW content — use at home!
- Free features available.
How to delete account: Username → My Account → Manage Account → Close Account.
Is it free? Yes, but limited perks.
Is there an app? No app, but mobile web version available.
Only for couples? No! Anyone regardless of sexuality can join.
Sign up process
Fast — under 5 minutes! Choose what you are and what you're looking for (man, woman, couple, group, TS/TG/TV). Enter birthdate, country, zip. Email, username, password. Race, body type, sexual orientation, marital status. Write an intro and optional "about yourself" section. Verify email and you're in!
Main feed & profiles
A tad busy but has Who's Online, New Matches, Members, Near Me, VIPs readily available. Right side has blog-like community posts. Profiles are well-detailed with personal info, preferences, compatibility, kinks, Gold status, friends and fans.
Search capabilities
Basic search, advanced search, and kink search. Advanced filters include hair/eye color, height, male endowment, children, marital status, drug usage. Limit searches to profiles with photos/videos to avoid bots.
Free vs. paid memberships
Free: Create account, add to hotlist, comment on photos/videos, read blogs, join chat rooms, basic search, view profiles (half-size pics only).
Gold membership: 1 month $19.95, 3 months $12.95/mo, 12 months $9.95/mo. Features: Send/receive messages, add friends, unlimited live streaming, full profiles, sex academy, send winks, full size photos/videos, join contests.
Points packages: 200 points/$3, 500/$6, 1000/$10. For read receipts, tips/gifts, bidding on members.
What sets SwapFinder apart?
- Community: Groups and blogs for sharing and making friends before messaging.
- What's Hot: Curated popular members/photos/videos (NSFW!).
- Live Action: Access live shows hosted on AdultFriendFinder.
- Advanced search filters: Among the most extensive in online dating.
Is SwapFinder legit?
👍Yes, but beware fake profiles. The site is legit with extensive member base and verification. Some fake profiles/bots exist — got messages as soon as I signed up which seemed abnormal. Tons of couples on here though!
Final thoughts
My answer is a solid 'YAY'. Signed up fast with tons of active profiles. Loved the detailed profiles and direct preferences. The interface is…ugh, but I got used to it. I'd recommend subscribing to 1 month Gold to test the waters. Remember to set up an attractive profile — spicy photos and detail help!
