I'm kind of a geek by default: I love words, writing, reading, witty podcasts, etc. so when my really smart friend said he was having trouble meeting women, I got to thinking. I told him that I've been on a kick lately with these "geeky" dating sites I found, and suggested he check one out.
When we did a search, Geek Nerd Dating popped up, I realized I hadnât tried that one before. We both signed up â I decided to check it out for myself too and see if I could find the geek of my dreams!
While the design wasnât as obviously targeted towards special interests like SoulGeek or TrekPassions (SciFi), it was clean, concise and let me know exactly what I could expect, including what I could do with a free account vs. a paid one. It also looks like itâs targeting those with broader interests that self identify as geeks or nerds, so the member base should be a lot bigger than some of the other niche geek dating sites as well. Iâm excited to share what I find in my Geek Nerd Dating review!
Geek Nerd Dating is a site where intelligent people can meet others across any number of interests â and itâs open to those who are straight or LGBTQ! When I was looking up some Geek Nerd Dating reviews, I was getting mixed information on who owned the site and there wasn't much info about it in general.
From my own research, it appears that Online Connections Inc. owns GeekNerdDating.com, along with 100+ other dating sites with specific niches, and is located in both Florida and London. The site was registered in 2011, so unless they switched domains, itâs about 14 years old.
What I can say is that it seems to be more male dominated, not as inclusive as other sites, and has plenty of search options to get what I want faster.
Geek Nerd Dating may be for you if youâre:
âď¸Male or female and looking for a long-term relationship.
âď¸Straight or LGBTQ.
âď¸Interested in finding matches who have similar geek or nerd interests as you.
âď¸Prefer a dating site has profile verification options.
Geek Nerd Dating uses an intelligent matching algo system to help you find the best fit for you!
Once you sign up, set up your profile, and decide if you want to get verified or not, they offer suggested matches similar to how Tinder does with a âPassâ or âYesâ option, but you can also search the entire Geek Nerd site to become your own matchmaker! They have something called the âIntroduction Serviceâ which is a mass message you can customize for them to send to singles in your area, and any new members that join as well if you want them to!
There's also a quick search and the ability to browse members based on a snippet of their pic.
Once you find someone youâre interested in, you can do any number of things depending on your account type â like their profile, add them as a friend, send them a private message, or flirt with them. Overall, the flow and features of this dating site felt very similar to others, which isnât necessarily a bad thing!
â Yes.
Geek Nerd Dating is a real site with real members looking for love. There are rules put in place to limit the amount of scammers and fake profiles on their site as well. Here are some ways that Geek Nerd Dating helps keep their site legit:
One thing I noticed is even though they have moderators approving profiles, there are a number of them that donât have profile pictures added and donât seem as legit. I think this is because other dating sites in their network can opt in to being included on GeekNerdDating.com, much like I can have my profile show in others as well.
My first impression of Geek Nerd Dating is that it wasâŚ.pretty boring. The layout, though it has a clean and intuitive design, is outdated and didn't grab my attention - make it pop a little! Here's what else I noticed:
Smart people ask questions - at least in my world! So here's what I was curious about while working on my Geek Nerd Dating review that may help you too:
How to delete Geek Nerd Dating account: start by clicking on "my account" scroll down to âprivacy settingsâ then click âdelete account?â Then, click âdelete accountâ again on this screen, then âproceed with deactivation.â
Can I deactivate my Geek Nerd Dating account?: Yes! Go to âmy accountâ again, scroll to âprivacy settingsâ and click "deactivate your account.â Then choose between temporary or permanent deletion, provide a reason, and then proceed with deactivation.
Is it free to join Geek Nerd Dating? It sure is! There's also the option to sign up for their premium membership to get my geek on.
Why the lengthy Geek Nerd Dating sign up? Geek Nerd Dating uses a smart algo matching system to help find your match, and they need info to know who you are! Help them be a better wing person by being specific about who you are and who you're looking for.
Does GeekNerdDating.com have verified profiles?: Yes, bb! Thereâs an option to verify your profile with a selfie and a few other instructions.
đ˛Unfortunately not.
While you can access Geek Nerd Dating via a mobile device (cell, laptop, tablet, you get the idea!), there is currently not a Geek Nerd dating app available.
đ˘Pretty slow! 5-10 min.
I was able to sign up easily right from Geek Nerd Dating's website! Itâs a little lengthy so make sure to sign up when you have a good amount of free time availâŚhere's what's involved with the process:
1. The first step is to select who I'm looking for. My options are:
2. The next step is to say my age - I type this in rather than choose from a drop down.
3. I list the country, state and city where I live.
4. Almost there! Just gotta plug in my email - this remains private but they will send potential matches to me.
5. I choose my username and password - BTW, I can opt to have a free membership with videogamedating.com! I didnât choose to join, but nice to know itâs an option.
6. I thought I was done, but I was wrong! Next up, my name.
7. Next up is setting my preferred age range for who I want to meet.
8. If I'm looking for a specific ethnicity, now's the time to specify it. I also have the option to choose "other" or "no preference.â
9. I say whether or not I have children.
10. I select my height from a list of measurements.
11. I choose my body build out of a good amount of options. Whew, this is a lot longer than I anticipated.
12. Almost there! I pick my ethnicity and if it's not there I can choose "other.â
13. I create a catchy profile headline (up to 60 characters) to get those profiles views and help matches know a little bit more about me!
14. Time to tell people about myself and what I'm looking for. I get up to 200 characters here.
15. LAST CALL!!! I add my pic to increase my chances of meeting someone. You can choose to skip this, but donât go too long without adding one because you wonât get as many responses to your messages or interest in your profile. I found out I could add videos to my profile after I finished signing up, too.
I know you're all curious to see what the main feed looks like!! Overall, the interface and aesthetic is clean and simple.
Right off the bat, I was able to:
Additionally, I couldâŚ
The Geek Nerd Dating profiles are kinda boring, but they pack a good amount of info into them. This is whatâs included:
Basically, as little or as much as they wanted to fill out when signing up (like what I shared earlier in my review) is what can be displayed on their profile.
đBasic & advanced search options.
One of the best ways to find someone on a dating site is to search for them! Fortunately, Geek Nerd Dating has a great search feature where I was able to narrow down my results.
Here's what I was able to filter by in basic search on GeekNerdDating.com:
The advanced search filters let me get super specific with who I was looking for! I could search everything from appearance, to their situation (like whether or not they have/want children, furbabies, what their living arrangements are, etc) to what they like to do for leisure and fun.
I could also search by interests, aka, what theyâre looking for. For example, if theyâre looking for a long term relationship, an activity partner (aka, someone to game with!), dating, just friends, etc.
All in all, Geek Nerd Dating has a lot of different ways to find a match, and if you donât like manually searching, you can click the âMeetâ dropdown in the top nav and see who they recommend for you!
â Yes!
You can check out the goods for free on the Geek Nerd dating site!! There are limited use with the free version, but at least you get to test it out!
â Yes! $1.00/day.
Yes! There is. The free trial is ~$1.00/day⌠$4.99 for a 5-day free trial. Donât forget to cancel though because itâll renew for the full price if you do!
Sometimes the free features can make or break whether or not I want to upgrade and try the paid version, and GeekNerdDating.com is no exception! Let me break down the diff features for each that I was able to explore while working on my Geek Nerd Dating review.
Don't things just sound better when the word "free" is attached to them? Well, how does FREE membership sound?! Here's what's included for nothing:
All in all, not too bad! I didnât like that I couldnât message anyone right away, but being able to send a few flirts per day for free is more than some other sites allow you to do before upgrading.
đ°Ranges from $14.99-$32.99/month.
A premium membership is like being a VIP at my fave nightclub - exclusive access, perks no one else gets, and feeling like a rockstar!
Here's what it costs to become a Premium member:
Here's what's included with Geek Nerd Dating's Premium membership:
It feels a little bit pricey if youâre doing month to month compared to others in the space. Geek2Geek, for example, is slightly less.
In a world of dating apps, it's easy for them all to blur together. Geek Nerd Dating wants to stand out from the rest, and how do they do that? With features, of course!
Here's what Geek Nerd Dating had that caught my eye:
If I'm going to commit to something, then it better be worth it! Of course, no one can be completely perfect (except me!! LOL) but if I'm going to pay for something, then I want to know allllll the good and the bad before I decide.
Ready to find out if Geek Nerd Dating is for you? Let's go!
There was plenty to like about the Geek Nerd Dating site. Here's what kept me coming back for more:
While I love the whole concept of the Geek Nerd Dating site, there were a few things that stood out in a not so good way. Here's what they were:
I was really excited to check this site out, but I didn't really get many responses. I did however get almost 100 messages over the first few weeks of using it that were mostly the introduction service feature. Besides that, it doesn't seem like a ton of people actively use this site. There weren't many Geek Nerd Dating reviews⌠which tells me they don't get a lot of traffic to their page.
Of the people I did see on there (with photos), they did seem legit. I found turning on a message filter to weed out people without profile photos helped me only get contacted by those who at least put in the effort to add one.
Considering the price point, it didnât feel like it was worth paying for an extended membership. That said, I'm not sure if it's due to lack of advertising or just a lack of interest in people wanting to date geeks/nerds, but it's still worth checking out the free account, trial, or just one month and seeing if itâs for you! Who knows, maybe youâll have more people in your area that are active than me.
Looking for more? Here are other geek dating sites to check out!
And if youâre looking more specifically for gamers:
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