I'm on a quest to find the best cougar dating site, and Cougar Fling is an age gap focused dating site I came across while researching. It's for mature women looking to date younger singles and have some fun.
What is Cougar Fling?
A dating website with a large US audience owned by Elite Marketing Solutions Inc. (US) or ODS Online Dating Systems LTD (international). Focus on age gap dating, specifically mature women. Been around since at least 2006. Skews heavily male.
How does Cougar Fling Work?
Old school registration form with fast signup. Once in, you're shown a list of people to chat with or search manually. "Rapid Match" is Tinder-style swiping. Be careful — "our friends" and "cams online now" links take you to partner/affiliate sites!
A feature I loved: setting filters on who can contact you for first messages!
The tl;dr on CougarFling.com
- Outdated user interface
- Several links took me to other dating sites
- No mobile app
- Ads in mailbox that look like messages
- Just enough features to be easy without being overwhelming
- Nice filtering for who can message you first
- Manual search and Rapid Match algorithm
How to delete: Manage profile → Edit settings → Deactivate account.
Privacy: Not automatic! Go to settings and opt out of being shown on the front page.
Invisible mode: Paid accounts only.
Is there a Cougar Fling app?
No. Sigh. But the site is mobile friendly!
Signup process
Super fast — less than 5 minutes! Choose who you are/looking for, age range, city. Then email, username, password, DOB. Upload one photo. Height, ethnicity, body type. Headline and description. Then they push you to a subscription page before even seeing the site!
Main feed
Decent interface, not overly cluttered. Fresh new profiles, quick search, browse members, contacts, favorites, rapid match, icebreakers, mailbox, and who's online. "Free Conversations" unlocked by filling out 50%+ of profile!
Profiles
Basic but informative: age, description, horoscope, location/distance, who they are/seeking, pics, online status, last online, appearance info. No profile verification though.
Search capabilities
Quick search, advanced search (body type, ethnicity, personality, interests), browse members by pics, and Rapid Match swiping.
Free vs. paid
Free: Create profile, check profiles, quick search, Rapid Match, favorites, block/report, contact filters, automated interest message, 30 free flirts, one free icebreaker.
Premium: 5-day trial at $1/day. 1 month at $32.95. 3 months at $14.99/month. Unlimited emails/flirts/IMs, invisible mode, all member pics, disable ads, 24/7 support.
What sets CougarFling apart?
- Bonuses — free icebreaker and messages
- IceBreakers — reach lots of people quickly
- Rapid Match — Tinder-like swiping
Pros and cons
Pros
- Free features available
- Bonuses for engagement
- Online/offline status visible
- Affordable premium
- Ad-free paid option
Cons
- Limited active users
- Several profiles didn't seem legit
- Links to outside sites scattered throughout
- No mobile app
- Profile visible on partner sites by default
Final thoughts
Good start if you're new to cougar dating. Experienced users may be turned off by the outdated UI. It was really hard to get conversations going! I wasn't a fan of being pulled into partner sites. But if you have the time, it might be worth a free try!