I love living in NYC because I'm surrounded by diversity, options, and creatives! One of my best friends is an artist, and knows alllll too well about my dating adventures and the sites Iāve been trying out. The other day she was laughing at her phone, and when I asked what she was laughing at, she showed me some ad she was looking at on the Pure app. Next thing I know, she's explaining to me how it works and how it's a little different from the other apps, and then before I know it - I'm on Pure!
My first impressions when I checked out pure.app was that it felt very millennial or Gen Z ā bright, well designed, appealing language, and also offered mobile apps. Which I KNOW is a strange thing to be excited about, but given how many other sites didnāt have an app to use, I have hope for this one yet, lol. K, letās dive into my Pure app review.
Pure app is a dating platform where people can post personal ads to find others with similar interests, wants, and needs. While Pure might market itself as a dating platform, it's really more of a well designed hook-up site that focuses on anonymous casual exchanges. Unlike most apps, there is no algorithm here to keep the theme of spontaneous sex unless you take part in Devilās Bones. (More on that soon!)
The Pure dating app originally rolled out in the U.S. in October 2013 as a low-budget project that quickly turned to a viral hit. It was first developed by a Ukrainian-founded company in Cyprus, called Misterico Limited before it caught the attention of writer and sexologist Carol Queen. Carol Queen supported the project, added her own graphics and concept to the app, and the rest is history!
Most of the users are between the ages 25-40, with 67% identifying as male, 30% identifying as female, and 3% non-binary. A large portion (70%) are straight, with 20% identifying as bisexual, and the remaining percent making up a combo of gay, lesbian, asexual, or queer members.
Donāt worry if youāre outside of the oldest range here, as thereās plenty of 40+ as well.
The Pure dating app is a good fit for:
ā Those who are looking for a casual relationship.
ā People who live in cities or busy areas (a few of the Pure app reviews mention a lack of users in their area).
ā Anyone who wants to live out their desires and fantasies in a discreet, anonymous environment.
The Pure app works very quickly! After you sign up, you post a āpersonals adā with text and photos. (Remember Craigslist? But better.) This is essentially where you can sell how awesome you are and why someone would want to hook up with you! You wonāt be able to see anyone elseās ads on Pure until yours is live, so make sure you do it ASAP.
Make sure you have your profile and turn ons all set up and ready to go, too.
Then basically, once you find a match, you have 24 hours to connect with that person. Once the 24 hours have expired, the chat disappears completely unless you both want to shut off the chat timer. Once the chat timer is disabled, both you and your match will receive a random nickname to stay anonymous while you carry on with your convo.
You can also play Devilās Bones where Pure decides who to match you with, which is a bit more fun than browsing personals ads. Aside from that, Pure deletes accounts every 24 hours to preserve anonymity, so youāll have to sign up again if you want to use the app.
Pure dating is a legit way to meet people from all over. It definitely makes safety and anonymity a priority, and unlike most dating apps, you don't even need to add a pic if you don't want to. Some may get frustrated that their messages disappear after 24 hours, but it actually adds another layer of security and makes it easier to avoid any creeps you match up with.
Some Pure app reviews mentioned that they didnāt have any luck on the platform, but itās all about how you approach it. If youāre looking for a long-term relationship right off the bat, this may not feel very legit to you.
First impressions: My first impression of the Pure app was it's fun, visually appealing, but can be a lilā confusing to figure out at first (at least for me). Here's what else I discovered about the app:
ā Best for casual hookups.
ā Completely anonymous - unless you don't want to be!
ā The layout makes it really fun to use and the ad idea is unique.
ā Being able to search via personals ads, or by being matched with Devilās Bones is a fun way to find a hottie.
ā Women can sign up free, men have to pay.
ā Accounts are not permanent ā every 24 hours, a new one has to be created, which helps security/anonymity.
Do you have to pay for Pure dating app? For women you don't have to, but men do (with the option of a 3 day free trial first!). There's also an option to purchase in-app features.
Does Pure dating do profile verification? I couldn't find a way to verify my profile, I even went through some Pure reviews and couldn't find anything.
How to delete Pure dating app: it's pretty easy to delete your Pure account! Start by clicking on settings, go to general, click on delete account, and then confirm!
Can you send nudes on Pure? You canāt use them in your personals ad, but you can send them in chat!
How to delete Pure account: Pretty simple tbh. You can go to āSettingsā then āMy Account/IDā then āDelete Account.ā Youāll lose all the info from your account (chats, etc) so be sure to grab anything you want to keep.
Will Pure cancel on its own after deleting: From what I understand, no! You have to go through and cancel your subscription in either the Google Play or iOS settings.
Yassss!!! There is a Pure dating app as well as a Pure dating site for the desktop! The app is also available via:
ā Android via Google Play
ā iOS via App Store
ā Huawei ID
I never thought I'd say this, but this sign up process for Pure.app was a lot of fun! The layout and design were exciting and interesting - I was actually looking forward to the next sign up step.
Speaking of steps, let's take a look at what they are:
As soon as I opened the Pure app, it took me through a trippy lil graphic that immediately caught my attention - talk about a first impression! I downloaded the Pure app for my iPad so I had 2 options to sign up - through Apple or Facebook. I could also download the Pure dating app through Google Play or via Huawei.
I have 3 choices when it comes to choosing my gender:
I can confirm my gender here as well as choose my sexuality. Here's the options:
I get to pick my turn ons - what a fun question! Each turn on comes with a cute lilā description and drawing. I'm not sure about the guys on here, but I was able to choose at least 13 turn ons!
There's a lot of options, so here's just a sample of what I could pick from:
I pick a pic (or 3!) foy my profile to increase my chance of matches!
Side note: Thereās also a private album where you can safely store nudes. DO NOT upload those here!
Time to write the personals ad I mentioned earlier. Double my matches AND show my witty side? YES please!
I tried to take a pic of the main feed, but Pure has safety procedures which prevents me from doing that, and instead gives me this creepy pic as a warning.
The feed here is personalized according to what I signed up with, my location, and what Iām looking for! Itāll show who is nearby and who is online, in case Iām looking for someone ASAP.
Hereās a generic photo of the feed since I canāt share mine:
And hereās what the profiles on there look like:
Theyāre pretty simple because the emphasis is on the personals ad, turn ons, as well as matching via the game!
I dunno about you, but I know what I want and I don't like to waste time when it comes to the bedroom. I like to narrow my searches and was excited that I could filter by:
The nice thing about seeing ānewā is that people new to the platform will show up there, whereas people who have been on Pure for quite some time earn the title of āPure guru.ā
Full disclosure!! I couldnāt take pics (no screenshots allowed) so these are general ones to show the game. Devilās Bones is basically their way of matching you, speed dating style! I tried it out and it was super fun.
Devilās Bones lets you āroll the diceā using your preferences, and start up an audio chat with someone! They may not even be local, they could be someone across the country. If youāre having fun, you can also do video chat with them, and if you get along well, progress to chatting outside of the game! Hereās the quickie version of how to use it:
For women - yes, for men - no. Men need to pay to basically use the app, and there are in app features to purchase! There is a 3 day trial available for men, so if you want to try it out and see if you like it, thatās better than paying right away.
As I mentioned, the Pure dating app is a little unique in the sense that the women don't pay, but the guys doā¦and from the Pure app reviewsI read, it's not too cheap. Let's find out for realā¦
Luckily for me, women can do pretty much everything for free. I was able to:
I identify as a woman, so the Pure dating app was free for me. I checked out some Pure app reviews to get an idea of the pricing tier and here's what I found men had to pay for (sorry, I couldn't find a pic of the prices!):
And hereās what this gave you feature-wise. You get all of the above plus,
With so many apps out there, it's easy for them all to blend together. Luckily, Pure knows this and threw us some shiny features to check out. Here's some of the Pure dating site/app features that set itself apart from the competition:
There's always gonna be things that you like and dislike about pretty much ANYTHING, and Pure dating is no different. Sit down, pour yourself a glass of something delicious,and get ready to hear the good newsā¦.and the not so good news.
Right off the bat, there was a lot that I liked about the Pure dating app. Here's what made me happy about the Pure app:
There were a few things that Pure could do better. Here's what they were:
Pure is a really fun app for casual flings or even just a night of sexting. I really liked the audio chat and how anonymous everything is. I did have to hide my profile at one point since the majority of users are mostly men, but it was extremely easy to do and the chats kept me busy!
I did have some successful matches via Devilās Bones and personal ads but nothing has stuck so far. Having to recreate my profile every 24 hours wasnāt quite my speed.
While dating on Pure is nothing like its name, it is a lot of fun! Even if I havenāt found someone soon, there doesnāt seem to be a limit on who I can connect with since Iām in a big city. Iāll keep on trying it out and report back later (maybe!!). If youāre looking for someone to hook up with locally and enjoy chatting outside of just text, Pure is for you!
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