I’m a bit fatigued (read: f’ing exhausted) from traditional dating sites, and while I’m not a gamer gamer, I definitely game enough for it to be something aligned with my identity. While I may not have found my Player Two, I did have a lot of fun exploring and connecting with other gamers, which is great cause a lot of us hang out on Reddit or in our homes playing anyway so… ya know. Kinda lacking that human connection most of the time.
My one worry with my foray into the gamer dating space is that I’d meet some awkward matches but honestly it was better than I expected. Alright let’s dive into my Date Player 2 review and experience.
I had no idea about this site so here’s a quickie on some stuff. Date Player 2 was launched in 2021, so it’s def a much younger company than most, which is refreshing.
The nice thing is, there’s no bias here. It doesn’t matter if you’re a console player, PC gamer, mobile gaming enthusiast… or, if you prefer RPG over ARG, big dream worlds over 8-bit… there’s something for everyone in the Date Player 2 dating community. (Also, I don’t think you’ll be judged for liking Tetris or some old school games. Not saying that’s me but also…)
Another thing to note that was confusing is while it’s DatePlayerTwo.com and some places (like the title of the site) called it Date Player Two, it’s actually Date Player 2.
First off, I loved that the language is all tailored to gamers. It sounds insignificant, but when you’re using more generalized dating sites that just have a gamer category instead of a niche site like Date Player 2, they can’t cater to the language that attracts that type of person. This went all in. LOVE.
What I noticed immediately was…
Some other stuff I was curious about:
How to cancel Date Player 2 account: Canceling is actually more complicated than other sites. You have to submit a request to customer service to cancel the recurring billing. This still leaves your profile up and available though. If you want to completely delete your profile and remove your data, you’ll have to do that afterwards on your Membership Status page.
Is there a way to deactivate your Date Player 2 account? Nope, you can’t. I wasn’t really a fan of this since I like to deactivate and then reactivate at a later time. You either have to cancel and leave your membership up, or cancel & delete your account fully which removes your messages, history, etc.
Does Date Player 2 have a trial? Nah, no trial BUT they did give me a 10% off voucher that I had 2 days to use if I wanted to upgrade.
So, is Date Player 2 legit? It’s two legit to quit ;) Kidding. From my experience on the site, it seems pretty legit. I noticed a few things out there talking about fake profiles or fake chat bots, but I can’t say that I ran into any of those things. Maybe it’s more apparent to guys looking for gals. Even though I’m seeking both, I just didn’t see many fake profiles.
The gamers I connected with all seemed like real people, and being able to have the activity feed and the community aspect allowed me to connect with those who are more active.
As usual, everyone’s experience is unique so exercise the usual caution required as a gal trying to navigate the online dating world safely.
K, onto the actual Date Player 2 review once I got in.
Signing up was pretty fun because it was aesthetically pleasing and essentially helped me fill out and level up my profile as I was going through it. The sign up process went like this,
First up, the usual stuff – click on the "Sign Up" or "Join Now" button to get started. You’ll then have to select who you’re looking for (male, female, other – and there’s an extensive list of for ‘other’)
From there you’ll have more screens to choose your location, add date of birth, and email.
Then it asks you for the types of games you like and want to play together.
Once that’s done, it asks you to choose what kind of relationship you’re looking for, and the specific age range (which is nice right off the bat to get with the algo).
…aaaand voila. I was all signed up. Things I appreciated? It gave me a username suggestion, allowed me to verify my profile with an ID check, and also had “online only” as one of the options for who I was looking for, which takes away some of the stress of IRL if you wanna just be online buds.
From there, I got to add in profile photos and more of the usual profile information. Then I was dropped into something called “The Lobby” which is your homebase and activity feed. This makes it feel more like an approachable social network rather than just a dating site. You’ll see recommended matches for you, blog posts/content that has recently been written, and up on the top right you’ll be able to click “Vs” to use Date Player 2 in more of a Tinder-swipey type way.
So knowing that this is super niche and the dating pool is smaller, how easy is it to find people to hookup with in the gaming space on Date Player 2? Search functionality seems to work like this:
I was really happy with who I connected with on here! I didn’t get a huge flood of messages like usual (or pics that were… unwelcome…) and for the most part, everyone was respectful.
Ah, one of my most important questions. It’s complicated, Well, not really. Date Player 2 does have an app but only for Android at the time of me searching.
Sorry blue bubble baddies, looks like this is another dating site that has the one up on you if you’re looking for a mobile experience.
Yup, there are certain things you can do on Date Player 2 if you wanna join and see if it’s right for you without ponying up the benjamins.
When I initially signed up, I was able to create my profile, showcase my gaming interests in my profile and browse through matches – the usual. While the free membership offers limited messaging capabilities, I was still able to initiate convos and explore the community.
I was essentially able to do the following..
I got frustrated with only being able to have limited messaging so I tried out the paid membership.
Upgrading to a paid membership on Date Player 2 unlocked a whole host of features I couldn’t get with the free one, and seemed to fall in line with the typical monthly membership costs of other dating sites I’ve used and reviewed.
Some of the stuff I noticed in the paid plan were…
All in all, the paid membership seemed worth it.
Some things I personally thought stood out as I used it were…
So yes, if you haven’t had experience on other dating sites, Date Player 2 might be the option for you. Gamers of all types flock to this platform, so it opens more options.
Plus let’s face it, having a common interest like gaming was a way better icebreaker than the simple “hey how are you” OR some of the more… colorful… messages I got on other dating sites.
Using dating sites is like playing a game cause you keep trying the same level over and over after you die hoping to find another way to win. I’d say Date Player 2 is like that. I really loved the experience of using it, but there were also some things I didn’t like and tried to avoid the more I used it. Sooooo let’s get into it.
Ok so, some of the things I liked about Date Player 2:
Just like a video game, there are some glitches that I hope an update irons out:
Overall, I found Date Player 2 a refreshing way to explore the dating world. I’ve never fully understood dating sites that also say they double as ways to make friends, but this changed my mind. Being able to connect with potential dates who shared the same passion as I do (and maybe even use the same gaming console… because that makes spending time together more fun) while utilizing the activity feed made it more like logging onto a social network than logging on to feel thirsty.
The potential downside of this type of niche dating site that has more of a social flavor is some people prefer dating in a bit more incognito and quiet manner. Plus, with (currently) ~15k users, I did tend to run into the same people. The pool wasn’t exactly large.
All in all though, I really enjoyed what I experienced of Date Player 2, and I’m still continuing to use it to see what’s out there. 10/10 would play again!
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