What is Cougar Pour Moi & who’s on it?
Unlike the sugar daddy sites I tried out, Cougar Pour Moi doesn’t seem focused
on specific financial arrangements. It’s more like having a fun fling and dating
an older or more experienced woman. With a name like CougarPourMoi, it’s
probably not hard to get the gist of who this site is for:
✅Older women seeking younger men and women.
✅Younger men and women seeking an older woman.
✅People interested in age gaps or mature dating in general.
✅People open to all kinds of relationships – short term, hookups, sugar
They don’t have options on this site for saying what kind of relationship you’re
looking for (a fling, serious, or something in between). So I think it’s meant
to be more casual. CougarPourMoi.com probably isn’t where I’d recommend going
for true love, but it’s not impossible that it could happen!
I read some other Cougar Pour Moi reviews and it appears that the site was aimed
at Europeans (mostly French — queue surprise!) people first, but has expanded to
be worldwide. I had plenty of users in my area and it appears there are roughly
200k users on the site altogether. Even though that’s much less than some other
sites who have upwards of a million users, it’s still pretty solid for a niche
cougar dating site.
Is CourgarPourMoi legit or not?
Obvi one of the first things I look at for every dating site review is whether
it’s legit or not. If something gives me the ick, I’m out.
So is CougarPourMoi legit?
From the beginning, Cougar Pour Moi felt pretty solid. The homepage is nice.
It’s simple, but it’s got everything you need to get started with no guessing
needed. The sign up process was super simple (more on that shortly) but I liked
that I had to enter in a verification code to continue. That helped me feel like
there might be fewer fake profiles or bots on the site.
I will say I had one incident right at the beginning that felt weird to me.
Before I’d even uploaded a picture or done anything with a profile, I had
from members. One said I looked just like what she needed (
👁️👄👁️) but that felt off because I had nothing on there!
The second asked if I wanted a gf or just a female friend, but since it also
came before I had finished the sign up process, I didn’t feel confident that it
wasn’t a bot or spam account. Beyond those, though, everything felt pretty solid
so maybe they were just fast on hitting up the newest users!
There aren’t a ton of features on the CougarPourMoi.com site, but the navigation
feels easy. It helps me feel like the site is legit, just on the simpler side of
some other dating sites I’ve reviewed. Nothing wrong with keeping it simple
The tl;dr on Cougar Pour Moi
I know some of you are ready to get on the prowl right away (go get ‘em, gals!)
so let’s skip all the extras and get down to the highlights here.
This was my first dive into older women dating, but this site was easy to use.
Here’s how it went down:
▶️The overall look of CourgarPourMoi.com was nice and felt legit.
▶️The “Like Gallery” is their Hot or Not-style game (always a favorite of mine!)
to find matches.
▶️ You can send up to 5 messages per day (with photos) as a free member, but you
really need to upgrade to connect with users better.
▶️Cougar Pour Moi has some short-term paid trials that let you check out the
premium features without committing to bigger recurring charges.
▶️ They have “Safe Dating” filters you can toggle between, which was great for
different comfort levels.
Are there verified profiles on Cougar Pour Moi?
it’s kind of a PITA and you have to search for it. You have to click the top
right hand drop-down menu then select “Get Support” and find the verification
option under the “Account Management” section. This instructs you on how to get
your account verified, but you have to physically call them to do so (and who
wants to do that??). It didn’t feel as user-friendly as it could have been.
Is there a Cougar Pour Moi app?
There’s not, but it was my
experience and the opinions of other CougarPourMoi.com reviews I read that the
mobile site is pretty user friendly.
How to delete Cougar Pour Moi account:
Deleting a Cougar Pour
Moi account is pretty straightforward. Click on “My Settings” from either the
top right corner drop-down menu or the tab on your profile page. Go to “Remove
Account” and enter in your password for secure access to the Account Management
page. Weirdly, this is where you go to manage your notifications (push, email,
etc) for everything, too. You can choose from:
- Take me off the mailing list
- Hide my profile
- Hide my profile and take me off the mailing list
- Remove my profile, contacts, and personal information completely
Is the Cougar Pour Moi site free to use?
Technically it’s free
to join CougarPourMoi, but in order to really connect with other users, you’ll
need to upgrade to a premium account. They have short-term options that let you
check it out without a huge commitment though, so that’s a win!
Is there a premium membership for Cougar Pour Moi?
there is! It’s a super rare dating site that doesn’t offer paid options these
days, right? Cougar Pour Moi has an upgrade option with a few different
subscription periods to choose from. The pricing is generally lower than some
other sites I’ve seen, but the “Popular” one they’ve highlighted is oddly more
expensive than the rest so I’m not sure what’s going on there?
What are flirtcasts on CougarPourMoi.com?
One of the features
on CougarPourMoi that I didn’t see on too many other dating sites was the
flirtcasts. This feature delivers flirty messages to many potential partners all
at once to increase the chances of a match.
Is CougarPourMoi free to use?
If you skipped over the tl;dr section I’ll give a little rehash here.
CougarPourMoi.com is free to join! There are even a solid amount of actions you
can take with a free account to get a feel for the site before you decide
whether or not you want a paid subscription. Later in my review I’ll get into
the specific features for free vs paid!
What's the Cougar Pour Moi sign up process like?
The Cougar Pour Moi sign up process was soooo easy! Honestly, it’s one of the
easiest ones I’ve ever experienced and I was stoked to just get started. That
said, there’s def more detail you can add to your profile after the initial sign
up process like details around salary, religion, piercings or tattoos, eye
color, and more.
The homepage was very short and simple with a clear Cougar Pour Moi sign up
form. Peep the process below 👇
Right off the bat, the Cougar Pour Moi homepage had me select who I am and
who I’m looking for, age, location, email, and password. I clicked “Start Now!”
and was basically halfway done!
I was immediately taken to a verification page to confirm I’m a real person!
I liked this because it made me feel like CougarPourMoi is a bit more legit and
doing what they can to keep out the fake accounts or bots. I checked my email to
get the verification code, entered it, and done.
Cougar Pour Moi is a dating site, so obvi they want my picture up! As you
can see, profiles with pics get a higher position in search, flirty likes from
other users, and “more vivid communication” … although I admit I don’t know what
that last one really meant and it wasn’t apparent lol. I could also choose to
have my account promoted to have a higher potential of matching with other users
— yes please!
That was it! After that, I was dropped onto the main feed so it felt really fast
Keeping the profiles pretty simple and picture/video focused made me feel like
this site was really developed for fun, casual dating versus some more
traditional dating sites where I had to fill out eleventy-million things just to
On the main feed page, I could instantly see that Cougar Pour Moi was a little
light on the features, but was easy to navigate and use for connecting with
- Manage my photos and videos.
- Fill out the rest of my profile (income, religion, eye color, etc.).
- Play the “Hot or Not” game called Like Gallery.
- Send out a flirtcast.
- Search users by applying filters.
🔎 Searching for matches on Cougar Pour Moi
Okay real talk, the Cougar Pour Moi search capabilities are pretty basic
compared to other dating sites I’ve tried. As I said earlier, I think it’s
because this is really aimed at being more of a casual dating site meant for
finding a fling instead of something serious, but I was still a little surprised
by the very limited search filters even after you select “Advanced Parameters.”
Still though, the search features on Cougar Pour Moi do work and you can use
them as a free member.
The basic search parameters are sex, age, and
location (with options for within 20, 50, and 100 miles). They also give you
options to see users with photos or who have videos plus filters to users online
now or new members.
The advanced search parameters on Cougar Pour
- Sexual orientation
- Body type
- Hair color
- Eye color
The thing is, there are more fields you can fill out on your profile to give a
little bit more info about yourself, so I was kinda surprised things like income
didn’t show up as search filters. Paid members get “extended search” but that’s
just the ability to click “View More” and see more profiles (I thought the
number of profiles that load for free members was honestly pretty generous).
Before I move on to exploring the rest and
considering upgrading my account, let’s make a pit stop at the Like Gallery!
This is similar to
swiping, where they match you up and you can “X” “♥️” or “ 💬” Free members get
100 profile views, and I noticed that they’re pulling in from a “partner
network” which is a first. 🤔
What does a Cougar Pour Moi profile look like?
🚫Limited viewing for free account
The Cougar Pour Moi site doesn’t make it super hard to look at profiles, but if
you want to see full-size photos and videos, you’ll have to upgrade to a paid
membership. The profiles themselves are pretty basic, continuing my assumption
that it’s meant to be a pretty casual site for connecting for a fling versus
something more serious.
Paid members are able to see 'Looking for' info, which is just age, sex, and
location. Unlike other dating sites, when I was putting together my Cougar Pour
Moi review I noticed there is no place for you to type in personal bios or
anything on your profile. It makes it just a little challenging to show off your
personality, so make sure you’re uploading your most 🔥pics to get attention!
I noticed here that it has a “Partner Network” highlighted, just like the Like
Gallery. It’s not news to me that some dating sites are affiliated with one
another and they had already given me an option to have my profile promoted
places (presumably affiliated dating sites) but I was surprised they were so
transparent about where a profile was being pulled from.
In one way, I liked that transparency and it added to the feeling of validity
for Cougar Pour Moi. On the other hand, it made me wonder how many of the
profiles I was seeing were actually looking for a cougar-style relationship for
older women dating younger people and how many were just cross-posted
profile, I could add…
- Photos or videos.
- Age, sex, location.
- Hair color, body type and ethnic origin.
- Sexual orientation.
- A status (kinda like FB)
- Who I’m looking for (gender, age, location radius, which caps out at 100
- Extra info like eye colors, whether or not I drink/smoke, if I have
piercings or tattoos, my education level, weight (ahem!?), height, whether or
not I have children, my living situation, and religion.
What’s nice about the last bullet is you can leave it blank (not given) or
choose “rather not say.”
I could also get to my settings and faves from this screen.
Free vs. paid subscriptions for Cougar Pour Moi
Even though it’s not completely restricted, Cougar Pour Moi is still kinda
limited unless you upgrade to a paid account. That’s pretty standard for most
dating sites (and you know I’ve got the receipts to back that up!).
To give you the best info, I put together lists of free and paid features when
making my Cougar Pour Moi review. Let’s hit up the free ones first!
Free features on Cougar Pour Moi
▶️Limited compared to other sites
Here's what I was able to do during my CougarPourMoi.com review without grabbing
the numbers off my credit card:
- View profiles (but can’t see full-size pictures without a paid account).
- Use basic search.
- Send 5 free messages (with photos) daily.
- Send free flirtcasts.
- Use the Like Gallery (Hot or Not game) and rate up to 100 profiles for free
- See who liked you in the Like Gallery.
- Create favorites and send likes to other users.
Not a bad little list of free features, right? It’s not super long, but I felt
it gave me enough ways to check out the CougarPourMoi site before deciding if I
wanted a paid account or not.
The overall features of Cougar Pour Moi are kinda limited compared to other
sites, but let’s check out the paid features they offer next.
💰Features & cost to upgrade Cougar Pour Moi account
If you’ve followed my dating site journey then you know I’m pretty much a pro
when it comes to deciding if paid features are worth it! Even though the Cougar
Pour Moi dating site doesn’t have all the flashy features of some other sites,
what it does offer makes it easy to connect with other users and have some fun.
The prices for a paid CougarPourMoi account seemed super reasonable, which
helped justify its lack of things like video chatting, forums, or live
streaming. 👀 Peep the details for the pricing below:
The cost for a paid Cougar Pour Moi membership is broken into four options:
- 1 Day ($0.99) — $0.99 per day
- 1 Week ($6.23) — $0.89 per day
- 1 Month ($55.79) — $1.99 per day
- 3 Months ($57.99) — $0.69 per day
I’m not sure why it says the 1-month subscription is the “Popular” choice when
it’s only $2 cheaper than the 3-month option and breaks down to more than double
the daily cost of every other membership period. I’m guessing it’s because
people want to dip their toes in longer than a week but hope to find someone
before months pass?
That weirdness aside, I did appreciate that they had short-term options to try
out the site!
A paid membership on Cougar Pour Moi gives you access to:
- Unlimited chats.
- Full-size photos.
- 'Looking for' info (which is just age, sex, and location).
- Extended search to view more users in search.
- Premium support.
- Share photos and videos in chat.
It’s important to note that the photos and videos you can send in chat aren’t
actual live streaming video chat, but the ability to upload videos into a
message you send to another user.
📲 Is there a Cougar Pour Moi app?
As I went over in the tl;dr section, there’s not a Cougar Pour Moi app right
now. From looking around and also reading more about the site, it doesn’t appear
there’s any big plans to create one any time soon, either.
While that’s a little weird for 2023, I will say that the mobile Cougar Pour Moi
site was easy to use, so I wouldn’t worry about it too much. It’s not a
make-or-break kind of detail here.
What sets Cougar Pour Moi apart from the rest?
Even being more basic than some others, the Cougar Pour Moi dating site stood
out in a few ways I really enjoyed. Some of the things that impressed me while I
put together my Cougar Pour Moi review were:
Profile verification:I like that they offer profile
verification even if it’s not super streamlined.
Hot or Not:
The Like Gallery “Hot or Not” style game is
always one of my favorites and stands out to me every time!
Safe dating filters:
I liked that Cougar Pour Moi offers
different levels of “safe dating” filters to give you more control over who can
Overall, the free features gave me a solid
view of what the site had to offer. Lately, I’ve been running into sites that
limited for free users, so this was a breath of fresh air.
Pros and cons of CougarPourMoi.com
I think it’s pretty obvious that I enjoyed putting together my Cougar Pour Moi
review and checking out what the site had to offer. But I won’t pretend it’s all
perfect. Let’s take a balanced look:
✅ What I like about Cougar Pour Moi
I know I’ve mentioned some of these already, but let’s do a quick recap on what
- The “Like Gallery” match game.
- Good premium membership prices.
- Easy navigation on mobile and desktop versions of the site.
- Transparency when a profile is from another partner site.
😑 What I didn't like about Cougar Pour Moi
With the good comes the bad. Here’s a few things that gave me the ick about
Cougar Pour Moi:
- The site was nice, but I think a few more features would make it better.
- Getting two messages before I finished signing up had me wary of fake
profiles (but it didn’t seem to be a widespread issue).
- Getting your account verified is kind of a PITA because you have to actually
call their support people.
- There's room for more advanced search filters to help find people you’ll
So… final thoughts for my Cougar Pour Moi review
When I was talking with my girlfriends about checking out a cougar dating site,
I thought it might be kinda similar to the sugar daddy dating sites I’d already
tried. But this girl can admit when she’s wrong!
The Cougar Pour Moi dating site was pretty unique. It was leaning more heavily
on the female profile side (you know I’m open to all kinds of experiences, so
I’d been open to men and women here) but it didn’t put the emphasis on finances
the way sugar daddy and sugar baby sites did. Instead, it seemed Cougar Pour Moi
was more about connecting with someone for a great fling and having a good time.
I liked that!
With over 200k people on Cougar Pour Moi, it’s not the busiest dating site I’ve
ever tried, but there seemed to be plenty of active users in my area so I don’t
think that was a big deal. Since they showcase profiles from partner sites,
however, I don’t know how many of the nearby users I was seeing were really
looking for cougar dating though. I was a bit weary about getting messages
before I even set up my full profile, so as long as you’re filtering out
kinds of accounts, there’s some legit ones to connect with.
Clearly I had a lot to report back to my friends after finishing my Cougar Pour
Moi review. I think some of them will be checking it out, too! The short-term
trial periods make it really easy and low-risk to give it a try.